Letter to Eliana – A Message to the Little Ones
To those whose silent cries for help were never heard.
To those who were never hugged, never told, “I love you so much.”
To those who had no one to protect them from the hardships of life.
To those who, from early childhood, could rely only on themselves — on their ability to adapt, to sense others’ moods, and to always be convenient, hoping that one day, someone would finally love them, hold them, or at least leave them in peace.
To those whose opinions were never valued, whose presence was overlooked, who were always told there were more important things to do than pay attention to them.
You didn’t receive comfort, care, a safe space, or a place for self-expression in this world.
Instead, you were given roles — convenient, safe, acceptable — and shoved into narrow frames of how to live and who to be, just to earn the right to exist, asking for nothing, only hoping that your good behavior would one day be rewarded — that someone would finally see you, love you, and accept you, because you truly deserved it.
You endured.
You were the “good ones”: proper, helpful, kind, humble.
You did everything the way your parents, teachers, relatives, society, friends, and partners wanted you to.
But now I say — Enough!
Enough being convenient — it’s time to become alive!
The brutal truth is — you were lied to.
There is no reward coming.
There is no parental figure, no God, no higher power, no cosmic contract that will reward you for your suffering.
All of it — pointless.
Useful to everyone but you.
Burn your expectations of life in the fire.
Burn others’ expectations of you.
Shake your body out of numbness with a wild dance — become untamed, unpredictable, and driven by the voice of your heart, not your mind!
Your time has come — and it is NOW.
Be loud.
Be inconvenient.
Be big.
Be clumsy, demanding, moody, angry, selfish, shameless, scandalous, cunning.
Destroy everything that kept you caged.
Unleash chaos in revenge for everything you endured all these years.
Give your shadow its voice.
Give your desires their wings.
Unlock the well of energy that is your real life — a life for yourself, rich with pleasure, sensuality, joy, and meaning.
Tear down everything false and dead in your life — anything that lacks your passion and your energy.
You need a social death — to experience a personal rebirth.
You need to be rejected — to find your own inner ground.
You need to shake off all that external dust — to see what is truly you.
Don’t look for someone to love you — love yourself wildly.
Don’t look for someone to protect you — you have teeth to tear through anything.
Don’t look for someone to care for you — no one is closer to your body and soul than you.
Don’t wait to be given anything — take what you need.
Don’t ask the Universe for happiness — build it yourself.
There is nothing left to wait for — everything is right in front of you.
Demand it. Take it. Break it. Create it!
Create loudly.
Create with passion.
Create as if it’s your last moment on Earth.
You have such vast, beautiful souls — set them free and let the world be stunned by their beauty.
You have such big hearts — fill them with love and care for yourself.
You have such a magnificent future — fill it with abundance and joy!
See you on the other side of the bridge.
